Do you find yourself speeding through life, going through the motions, without fully experiencing the moment? If so, it may be time to take a deep breath and to cultivate patience. Patience is one of the most powerful tools at our disposal. Learn how to cultivate patience inside of this post. #patience #cultivatepatience #consciousliving #mindfulness #beingpresent #gratitude #spiritualpath #intentionalliving
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The Power of Patience: 6 Ways to Cultivate Patience

Patience is one of the most valuable tools that we have at our disposal. But patience is a skill that we need to cultivate. And let’s face it, losing sight of this practice can be so easy.

Inside this post, you will learn about five benefits of cultivating patience and six ways to cultivate more patience in your life.

Do you find yourself speeding through life, going through the motions, without fully experiencing the moment? If so, it may be time to take a deep breath and cultivate patience. Patience is one of the most powerful tools at our disposal. Learn how to cultivate patience inside of this post. #cultivatepatience #consciousliving #growthmindset #mindfulness #beingpresent #gratitude #spiritualpath #intentionalliving

Patience, patience, patience – a word that has consistently come up in my life. A reminder of sorts to slow down and to be present, rather than speeding through life at 100mph. 

You see, it’s so easy to speed through life, going through the motions, without fully experiencing the moment. In fact, it’s a common practice to do this. We truly live in a fast-paced society, where patience is not a prevalent practice.

Think about it: how often do you catch yourself driving at a fast pace to get somewhere when you aren’t even running late or have nowhere to be? Further, how often do you find yourself frustrated because the car in front of you is driving slower than you would like it to? 

Today, especially with the rise of the internet and social media, we are used to instant validation and immediate results, placing patience on the back burner.  

For example, if you have a question, you head over to Google on your phone, and typically your answer is right there. However, sometimes the answer to your question isn’t immediately apparent, and when this happens, you can feel frustrated and overwhelmed. 

Another example is when you send a message to a friend and expect a prompt response back from them. However, when that friend does not respond to you right away, you get frustrated. Does this sound familiar? 

If I had to list all of the areas of my life where I have been previously impatient, we would be here all day… and perhaps night.

Related: 7 Tips for Practicing Patience: What helped me practice patience while waiting for surgery

Five Benefits of Cultivating Patience

(1) Patience enables us to be more present in the moment

Using the example of the slow driver in front of you, if you choose to be frustrated with the driver, you will most likely be fixated on the vehicle, thus blocking out anything that is occurring around you. As a result, you will miss out on the beauty surrounding you on your drive. 

However, if you choose to practice patience and make the intention to enjoy your drive, you will be able to notice the beauty that surrounds you. Even more, you become more open to receiving any signs and messages sent your way from the universe.  

By practicing patience, we become more able to experience all that life has to offer us. Further, we are more able to recognize the opportunities that come our way, which we may have missed out on if our focus was elsewhere. 

Related: How to Feel Gratitude: A quick exercise when practicing gratitude

(2) Patience allows us to lead a healthier and happier lifestyle

With impatience comes frustration, stress, anxiety, and anger, and when our body is not in a relaxed state, our health becomes compromised. Stress can cause energetic imbalances and blockages in the body, which can then manifest in the physical body as illness. 

There is nothing beneficial about impatience, yet it can be an automatic response for many when it comes to situations out of our control. 

When we practice patience, we become more relaxed, leading to us being healthier, happier, and more apt to notice the blessings in our lives. 

(3) Patience helps you achieve success

When we have an idea and bring it into the physical, we are planting seeds. For those seeds to become our dreams realized, we must water them and allow them time and space to grow in the universe’s divine timing. 

It is important to tend to these seeds so your dreams become a reality. If you choose to move on because it’s taking too long, you could miss out on what could have been a significant success for you. It’s essential to follow through with your ideas. 

(4) Patience assists us in opening our hearts to self-love and self-acceptance

I’m willing to bet that there have been times when you haven’t met your expectations of yourself. Those times when you have been too hard on yourself because you didn’t pass that job testing or you keep getting sick and are unable to be as productive as you wanted yourself to be. Does this sound familiar? It does to me. 

We learn to love and accept ourselves even more by practicing patience with ourselves. It’s essential to allow yourself the space to take a step back in those times when you realize you are too hard on yourself. 

You are just as deserving of love as anyone else. And self-love is the most potent form when it comes to your wellbeing. 

(5) Patience leads to kindness and compassion towards others

When we take the time to practice patience with others, whether it is in a time of frustration or adversity, we are consciously choosing how we react to the situation. 

Rather than being short, if a person cuts you off in a line, for example, you can choose to take a deep breath and extend that person kindness and compassion because they may very well need it at that moment. You could say to yourself, “that person must really need to get somewhere faster than me at this time.” And then allow yourself to let it go. 

Kindness goes a long way and can significantly influence a person’s day. After all, it only takes a moment to look at another human being and send a smile their way. 

When we are patient with others, we choose to extend kindness and compassion to them. 

“Patience is not simply the ability to wait – it’s how we behave while we’re waiting.” – Joyce Meyer

Six Ways to Cultivate Patience 

As mentioned above, patience is a skill that we need to cultivate. To do this, let’s talk about six ways to cultivate patience in your life:

(1) Let go of the gas and slow down

When you catch yourself speeding through life, take action and slow down. Drive the speed limit and watch how others rush past you. Be spontaneous and take the long drive home to enjoy the journey. Stop and smell the roses (literally).

(2) Practice Active Listening

Really listen to the person in front of you, rather than already having pre-formulated responses in your mind. When we are patient and take the time to listen to others, we not only allow ourselves the opportunity to learn from them, but we also allow the person to be heard. After all, every person we meet can greatly affect our lives if we take the time to listen to them.

To practice active listening and presence, I recommend using the Synctuition app. Synctuition uses 3D sound by combining over 13,000 sounds recorded worldwide into unique mind journeys. Each track is an immersive mind travel experience, and they are so relaxing. I love listening to the app at nighttime just before I head to sleep; it helps me let go of any mind chatter and get a good night’s sleep. Learn about the app and the three ways I use it inside this post.

(3) Take a Deep Breath

If you face adversity, allow yourself the space to take a step back and take a deep breath. Consciously choose how you react to the situation by shifting your perception; try to look at the bigger picture. It’s only a bump in time, not a forever. Also, look for humour in the situation. As Sonia Choquette says in her book Trust Your Vibes, “the situation is critical, but not serious.”

(4) Be Aware of Your Surroundings

There may be a person in need of assistance nearby. You can practice patience by taking the time to stop and hold a door open for another person, help a person carry their groceries to their car, or even send a smile their way to remind them that they are not alone. Being of assistance to others is a great way to practice patience.

(5) Practice Gratitude

Take the time each day to practice gratitude. By listing five things you are grateful for from your day, you will start to see the gifts and synchronicities that come your way. By practicing gratitude, you begin to see that everything is interconnected, and when faced with adversity, you start to look at it as a learning opportunity rather than a “problem.”

We often have a 7-day gratitude challenge in our online community: The Conscious Living Circle. The community is free to join, and it’s off social media. So if you’d like an opportunity to practice gratitude with others, I invite you to join us. We’d love to see you there!

Related: How to Start a Gratitude Practice

(6) Let go of control and trust the path

Things will not always go the way you planned. Be open to twists and turns along the path because they will happen. Trust that you are exactly where you need to be. Practice patience by going with the flow and seeing where the path leads you.

And there you have my favourite ways to cultivate patience. All is unfolding as it should be. Remember to enjoy the journey, sweet friend! The journey is where it’s at, not the destination.

Available inside the Resource Vault: 38 Gratitude Journal Prompts to Assist You with Your Daily Gratitude Practice. Created by Sara Monk. Get the gratitude journal prompts here!

With Love,

Sara Monk is a Conscious Living Writer & Teacher, Certified Advanced Crystal Master, and the Creator of the Crystal Companions Program. Sara is passionate about helping those on a spiritual journey reconnect with their hearts so that they can create the life of their dreams.

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  1. Rhiannon Day says:

    Oh Sara, I am breathing easier just from reading your post. Patience is a HUGE soul assignment for me. I like to run the show and have everything go according to plan, but it really does strip the joy from the moment. I have bookmarked these tips and I will be using them to practice patience. Thank you so much for sharing.

    • Sara says:

      I am happy it was beneficial for you! Patience is definitely something I’ve had to work on – and I get the wanting to run the show. When we accept what is, and just go with it, it can become an enjoyable experience; though it can definitely be difficult to do that sometimes… I hope you have a wonderful day!

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